A SWEET MISHAP..!!

Many people do many things for their friends. Small adjustments, sacrifices, risks etc .., make friends happy. These are very small things one can do for his/her friend.

Do you know what god made me sacrifice for my friend????

IT’S MY FRIENDSHIP…. MY TRUE FRIENDSHIP..

      Last year, I got a new friend. My new friend became very close to me, dominated even my childhood friends. I thought that, after my parents it was my friend who thinks and cares more about me. I thought it’s difficult to get my eyes wet. I was like shedding tears when my friend went home for two days. It was the same even for my friend.

I don’t know who envied our friendship. I believe in “cryings may change the fate”. And here, they did.

My friend was affected by a contagious disease and went home. I came to know that it was for the second time. All I can do is just pray to god for my friend. And I did. For the first time, I went to temple and prayed whole heartedly. I asked god to make my friend get well soon. I prayed god to punish me and make me suffer if my friend had committed any mistake. I didn’t believe that god would listen to all these. BUT HE DID!!

My friend was out of suffering within a few days. My friend was back with some words and statements with what god did the inaugural function for my sufferings ahead.

My friend started avoiding me. And the smiling face would turn pale on seeing me. The thing that did hurt me a lot is my friend’s pain for hurting me. My friend didn’t know that these were god’s tricks.

My friend avoided me because of some personal relation, who was very possessive on my friend. This made both of us suffer. And this is common as everyone will be possessive on their closed ones.

God was not satisfied with this. He used to change my friend’s mind randomly, to avoid me some times and to talk to me sometimes. I was confused what to do whether to talk or stop talking to my friend.

Confusion made me lose control over my mind. And with that everything went wrong. My friend was not happy with the things I did. My friend started avoiding me without any pain.

 All these resulted in a tragic ending. We both were not supposed to talk to each other. I decided not to talk with my friend again in my life.

Though it was hard, I pretended to be happy because,

Few people were happy with my suffering.

Unlike before my friend wasn’t feeling bad for hurting me.

This was only a chapter in my life.

THANKS MY FRIEND!! I have experienced a true and memorable friendship in my life.

HAVE U EVER XPERIENCED..??

RESERVATION

This is other form of corruption, where corruption is illegal and reservation has its rights declared by constitution. Reservation can be described as talent/hard work /hope suppressed by rules.

People say about it in a positive /negative manner depending on reservation they deserve or not.

Government wants no imbalances in the society, so they offer reservation to particular groups of people.

The past situations when reservation came to existence were different. Reservation is exactly the right decision taken by constitution. People who were offered reservation, developed to considerable extent because of their hard work.

Pointing out something does not make sense unless it is given a proper description.

Consider present days, talented people are not getting success in what they deserve.

Worst selections result in worst future.

For example,Because of reservation a candidate is selected as a government teacher, though he does not deserve it. The deserving candidates are not given an opportunity. The selected person has no ability to teach. Thus the students studying under him get replicated as him as it is government school, most of them deserve reservation.

This is the same in many cases. Talent is suppressed by reservation. 

Reservation is killing hopes of many people and this is why India is still a developing country.

Politicians, who take advantage of reservation for their own benefits, do useless promises like increased reservation etc.., making people worst.

People deserving reservation became lazy as they know, little effort makes them succeed. As a result, their knowledge is limited to a small extent.

In competitive exams like IIT, AIEEE etc.., candidates who don’t deserve reservation are not justified. As these results decide the future of a student, reservation plays a key role in success.

Government even pays everything for candidates who deserve reservation. Government should realize the fact that all those who deserve reservation are not needy and those who don’t deserve are rich.

A lot of imbalances are created instead of reducing them in a country. 

India is said to be a developed country when corruption and reservation terminate.

Finally reservation must be based on financial background and not on the basis of cast, community and creed.

EVERYONE MUST GIVE A THOUGHT ABOUT THIS

DO YOU USE..??

Talents!!  People feel proud of their skills. Though they use them or not, having some skills in particular makes them feel satisfied.

Some exhibit their talents for their livelihood. Some practice them as a hobby or for fun.

People showcase their talents in many ways. But, showing their skills where situation demands is useful.

Making a situation better with his skills makes him a hero.

In case of a few people, they hide their skills as they feel shy to get exposed. The other reason is, people making fun of them.

At times of crisis, even if he comes out of his shell, his talents remain sunk in shyness. This is because of his prior being.

Talents +shy= “USELESS”!!!

Talent must be used often to have a grip on them.

     Talent brings you success, talent brings you respect,

               Talent brings you fame, talent makes you superior.

So, talents should not be hidden, make them useful to u first, then if possible make them serve your nation.

     HAVING/SHOWING TALENTS HAS NO IMPORTANCE,

BUT CONVERTING THOSE AS STEPS TO YOUR SUCCESS IS OF PARAMOUNT IMPORTANCE..!!

AN INSPIRATION

I AM PROUD OF HIM

Many great people stand as inspiration for people. People get inspired by knowing about their work, their way of success, hard work etc..,  Mahatma Gandhi, Nehru, Abdul kalam are few who inspired India. Here comes a common middle class man who overcame many obstacles to achieve success and become an inspiration to his village.

He was born on May 26^th 1966 in a small village hardly having 100 families. God had no mercy on him, his sufferings were born along with him. His mother died within ten minutes after bringing him onto this planet. His father was a farmer and he remarried to take care of his child. Step mother can never be a real mother. Within 8 years she got two sons and two daughters. She made him work in the fields and as security for mango farms, located near a small forest. He was twice attacked by bears, he was only injured by god’s grace. His father was helpless. At the age of 12 he was taken by his distant relatives and was made to work as a slave to them. He used to go to Government school and by evening 4’o clock he had to do cattle work and at nights, he used to sleep in the fields as security whatsoever the season may be. He worked very hard and he dint had even 5hrs of sleep every day. He completed his tenth grade with good marks. He went for further studies in Government college. He completed his degree course.  He got married at the age of 26 to one of his relative’s daughter. He passed all the levels in the police selections. But finally got rejected because he is not capable of offering the bribe they asked him. He was given one acre of his grandfather’s agriculture land along with 40,000 rupees of debt of his father and responsibility of his younger sister. Day and night he did many jobs besides agriculture to feed his family. After few years he worked as a supervisor in a small construction site. Many people got attention of his hard work and honesty. They offered him many works. He completed them all in time as well as took care of his family. His wife supported him in all the ways she could. He got contacts with many influenced people in the city. And he finally joined as a accountant under a sub contractor. His honesty and his dedication made him a trusted man in the eyes of his superiors. A contractor with multi contracts in his hand trusted him and made him a sub contractor to look over his contract. Now with this he got more influence. Besides this job he did agriculture which was more profitable in those days. Within three years he became a contractor with his own contract of laying a small rural road. Within two years he became a high grade contractor. He cleared the debt made by his father. Owner of one acre became owner of 6 acres. Now at present still he works as he worked in his young age because he believes in hard work. And he wants his children to be happy and well settled in high positions and he is providing them whatever they ask for. His confidence, honesty, hard work, dedication to his work made him succeed and an inspiration to his entire village.

At the age of ten he suffered to earn ten paise and

Now he is a contract holder of 2.2 crores.

He is my loving and caring father.

I am proud of him..

   DAD, I LOVE U..!! J

HOW PRAYERS AND CRYINGS CHANGE THE FATE??

                   “Prayers may change the fate” this is followed by many people. Some pray everyday irrespective of their situations as they show more gratitude to god for what they are up to. Some people pray when they are in worst situations and some pray when they are prosperous leading a lovely life.

“But how do prayers change the fate"

Here it is…. 

               

                 It depends on the mental psyche of the person. For an example, a person in adverse days of his life prays a lot to get better.

here, we consider....

Case1:

        When his situation gets better, he thinks that his prayers had come true and he starts praying more to continue basking upon his happy days .

Case2:

        When his situation gets still worse, he thinks that his prayers are not up to the mark and starts praying to the peak until situation are under control.

# But actually his situation got better due to his decisions taken with more confidence in case1 and more care in case2. He got the confidence and the alertness from his prayers. In This way, depending on people’s mindset prayers show their effect.

                          ”cryings change one’s fate”.

         Here “ cryings(envying)” are a bane to us from others. Few people cannot digest the success of others and they think about them all the time. Thereby making themselves disappointed. And they choose an odd (ill mannered) path to defeat or get over the successful ones.

Ø  For an instance, let us consider a person who got promotion in some field. The people who also deserve the same cannot digest it due to their personal reasons and they start doing ill things like

v  blaming him for everything

v  spreading bad gossips about him, more than one could expect.

Thus cryings made people do insane things by losing their mental track. This is how

                                          

                                       ” cryings change one’s fate”.

ABC wed: love in life is precious

WHAT DO U THINK OF LOVE IN FRIENDSHIP?

                People think that  LOVE IN FRIENDSHIP means friendship ending with love .But  actually it is caring in love .This caring will be more in friendship between a boy and girl. It seems to result in love and further .
Some results in love and some remains as true friendship .Remaining as true friends forever will be very rare because in friendship one understands the other most .so, they want him/her as their life partner.This friendship results vary depending on:
1. If she/he having lover/love
2 .If both have selected their partners
3. If both are not yet committed

1.This type really leads to many misunderstandings .when he/she is committed they start and continue to spend their time with their partner. The other one feels that he/she is avoiding or not caring about them and they  think and react in a way that hurts both of them.

2.This is really enjoying one. Both will be very busy with their selected ones so there is no point of misunderstanding because they feel the situation of the other. They will share their moments with each other and they will be normal because there is no matter of possessiveness from their selected ones

3.This is the luckiest one. The understanding between the two is peak. No personal matters. Enjoy everything in common. Most of these result in love as their care on each other reaches the peak.




The love after friendship is as pure as the mother’s love to her children. He and she in that love will be happy for ever……                       
               LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL,
               LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL,

               LOVE IN LIFE IS PRECIOUS .